The Reality of Homelessness

Case managers Miss Judy and Miss Sarah spent an hour with us on Thursday giving us insights into the challenge of tackling homelessness. They have created a network of organizations to find and visit the camps of the homeless living throughout the area in order to develop relationships with the people and connect them with the appropriate support services. Judy described their work as giving people hope, and says these folks “just need a hug.”

People tend to look past the homeless, fear them or judge their situation to be a result of poor character or laziness. Sarah quoted one woman who said, “I belong nowhere.” These two women and their staffs work hard to acknowledge their humanity and dignity and advocate for them in a system that throws up barriers each and every day.

Sarah told the wrenching story of a man who was living in the woods behind the mission house. Despite their best efforts to keep him fed, he kept losing weight, and it became increasingly difficult for him to move around. Becoming more and more concerned, one day Sarah called for an ambulance to take him to the hospital, and waited four and a half hours for it to arrive. Once they finally showed up, they demanded that the man get himself into the ambulance in five minutes or they were leaving — but offered no stretcher or other assistance to get him onboard. Once at the hospital they dropped him on the sidewalk, once again not providing the basic service of wheeling him in on a stretcher or wheelchair. He was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer and was discharged with minimal treatment and no ongoing care after a few days, on the basis that he didn’t have insurance to pay for treatment. He died a few days later in his tent.

Back Bay Mission, in partnership with Catholic Charities, has acquired a 10-acre property to develop into overnight shelters and to house Loaves and Fishes, including building tiny bedrooms on wheels to fill the gap in community overnight shelters, which are only opened when the temperature (real, not feels-like) drops below 35°. The systemic barriers seem endless: the heartless way the medical system treats homeless people, often sending them home with no care; the lack of public transportation; and the onerous bureaucratic processes to get assistance.

Sarah told us they don’t see it as their role to tell drug addicts to stop their addictive behavior. Instead, they counsel them about the importance of paying their bills before they buy drugs, and try to connect them with addiction services. They started a free clean needle exchange program, but the city told them giving out free needles was against the law. So they now charge one penny for a clean needle.

Sarah is the embodiment of the concept that faith is a verb. Married to a police officer and a former officer herself, she employs a very hands-on approach to this job she loves, finding the homeless where they are, establishing trust and developing relationships. She might be personally delivering someone to an ER, or visiting them in their camp.

Kenney Washington, who manages all the non-construction programs, told us that in 2020 there were only 187 volunteers like us, most before Covid took hold. In a normal year more than 800 are showing up to help. They have had to adjust the way they approach their mission as a result of Covid, still trying to help as many people as before. He observed that people become homeless due to a lack of relationships, not a lack of resources; many of the Micah Center’s clients have jobs, but they don’t earn enough to house themselves. Add to that a regressive taxation system, in which there’s a 7% tax on food, and it becomes clear why there is so much poverty here.

There’s a special place in heaven for the people who do this work. And to quote Kenney, speaking of all the volunteers who give their time and effort to come to BBM, it takes a lot of maturity and compassion to work hard on something that doesn’t affect you.

And the Beat Goes On

Homeowner Miss Jessie is thrilled with how her roof is shaping up — so much so that she is doing a fish fry for our lunch on Friday!

At the food pantry, Sharon and Lorie have organized and stowed huge quantities of canned and boxed food, including repackaging 70 dozen eggs.

We had the pleasure this week of meeting Elizabeth and Pam, who drove to Biloxi from Batesville, Indiana, with a van load of clothing and non-perishable food, all destined for the Micah Center. We’ve shared our meals, played cards and worked side by side, and these new friends have vowed to come back next year while we’re here so we can be together again.

Up on the Roof

All the old shingles are off, plywood repaired, new shingles delivered. Tomorrow: new shingles.

Back on campus, Lorie spent most of the day reorganizing the food pantry.

We shared the mission house with Loaves and Fishes today, and will do so again tomorrow and Friday. They lost their building so are using the mission kitchen three days a week to prepare breakfast and lunch for 70-80 people and then serve it in the parking lot. Makes for some minor logistical challenges for us, but we managed to pull dinner together after they left this afternoon.

The work crew trudged in after a long day on the roof, but mustered the energy to play games tonight — including teaching Sharon how to play euchre.

And a sunset walk on the powdery white sand beach capped the day for Courtney and Victoria. We’ve been blessed with exceptionally fine weather.

Back to Biloxi…Again!

Covid kept us from doing our favorite January activity in 2021, but we came back in (somewhat reduced) force yesterday. Of our original 20, 14 managed to evade Omicron, so here we are in Biloxi again. Different this year: Craig’s wife came down with Covid, so he couldn’t be here to welcome us this morning. Hopefully he’ll be with us Wednesday.

The first project for this week is stripping off an old roof on a house in Gulfport and re-shingling it.

Arrival day involves unpacking, a big grocery shopping expedition and dinner out — this year at Shaggy’s, a favorite beach bar/café with great local food. And the sunset over the Gulf isn’t a bad reward for all the running around…

As Much As We Could Do

Day five, and the rain came as predicted around mid-morning. A group went to the site early (6:30) to gather up all the wood they would have needed had they been able to continue the job today. Craig says it will be another month before he has another crew with the skills to pick up where we left off and put the roof on. He’s very pleased with what was accomplished this week.

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It was a weird day. The weather was gloomy and the only thing left to do is clean up the mission house — but we can’t do that till later tonight. Seven people went to New Orleans and another eight are going out for barbecue, leaving about half of us to eat up all the leftovers. The sense of exhilaration that usually prevails at the end of the week seems missing, even though so much has been accomplished.

Maybe it’s just that I’m dreading tomorrow. Our flight leaves NOLA at 7 a.m., so we must leave here at 3:30 in order to gas up and return the rental vans. With thunderstorms and wind in the forecast, I worry that our flight to Charlotte will be delayed and we’ll miss our connection to Hartford. Say a prayer that my fears will turn out to be unfounded!

 

Cruising Toward the End

Last full day at the worksite, and it looks nothing like it did on Monday morning.

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Last night some of the gang went to the Half Shell for oysters after church. Sharon, who has never eaten an oyster, tried half of one. Brave girl!

Darwell’s in Long Beach is a funky no-frills place with excellent Cajun and Creole food and fun live music, and was our dinner destination for this evening. Fun night!

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Watching the weather to see what we’re doing tomorrow…

Spreading Love

As most followers of this blog are aware, there are other ways to serve this community besides wielding building tools. The Micah Day Center on the BBM campus offers homeless clients a place to shower, do their laundry, have a snack and get assistance preparing for job hunting or tapping into other services, such as the Home At Last program. The food pantry, also on campus, offers eligible clients the chance to “shop” for food with the help of a volunteer escort.

Just a couple of miles down the street, Loaves and Fishes serves hot meals. This week, six volunteers so far have rolled up their sleeves to help with meal prep and serving, as well as boxing up meals for delivery to homebound folks.

Meanwhile, framing work continues apace on Waterside Circle…

Amazing progress in three short days! Tonight we make the annual visit to the prayer service at the Main Street Missionary Baptist Church, where Ken Brown will deliver a greeting on behalf of First Church and the trip participants. It’s always a joy to experience the warm welcome parishioners extend when we return each year; and they’re always appreciative of our feeble singing efforts as we share two hymns. As bad as we sounded when we did a run-through last night, I’m confident we’ll be a lot better from the choir loft tonight!

One more day of decent weather is forecast for tomorrow, so it’ll be a full workday at the site before thunderstorms move in on Thursday night and Friday.

It’s Starting to Look Like a House

All exterior walls save one came up today, as well as many interior walls.

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We’re also sending a steady stream of helpers to the food pantry, Micah Center and Loaves and Fishes. Photos forthcoming.

Meanwhile, in the kitchen we’ve had to up the ante on food. Instead of cooking for 30, which is the actual number of people we’re feeding, we’re cooking for forty — with no leftovers. Grocery shopping never ends! Tonight’s dinner was everyone’s favorite chicken taco casserole. I woke up in the middle of last night thinking we should increase the quantity by 25%. We did, and ended up with only a small portion left over. This army travels on its stomach!

Our fine weather should hold through tomorrow, with clouds moving in Thursday, though still warm. That will help keep up the feverish pace the crew leaders have set.

And So It Begins

According to Craig, Back Bay Mission is busier than it’s ever been, with dozens of projects underway. They have migrated from housing recovery to building new homes, and this week’s project is to frame two houses. Arriving at the worksite, we saw the blank canvas…

The crew leaders are driven to finish these two projects by the time we pack up Friday. We started with a spectacular sunny and warm day, which hopefully will hold for most of the week.

Our friends from Newtown are with us again.

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The photo above represents about two hours’ progress!

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Boom! The crew returned to the mission tired and sunburned, and tore into dinner like a horde of locusts.